can i say it now?

my job is officially over.. almost..

alhamdulillah, it went well, almost smooth and most importantly, what she wants, we (I) try to get..

on behalf of the family, big THANKS to all..relatives and friends of families who were there for the big days, for all the assistance and support given, be it monetary or non..
minta maaf kalau ada terkasar bahasa kah perbuatan yg inda disedari, maklum ada masanya, time kelam kabut.. minta difahamkan saja..

yg terlapas jemput, yg inda terjemput, yg djemput tp inda belaku dtg, yg djemput tp nda sudi dtg, yg dtg walau inda djemput. TERIMA KASSSEEYY jua...




Signing off, here's links to pics. some u might not have access to : RJ63's as the official photog, Isy's, Starz' - by invites only - Ejah's & Jiah's..and if u hv some more, do put in ur link at the shoutbox, ayt.




Luvs~ Mami Alai

Majlis Pernikahan & Majlis Berdikir dan Berbedak.

eseh, udah be update, but this one is my contribution.. :)

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08th August 2008.

Majlis Akad Nikah - 9.30 am onwards - Bride's Home @ Tutong.

Akad Nikah or The Solemnisation is the main highlight in a Muslim Wedding ceremony where by the couple will be giving their "oath of marriage". A Wali - legally the bride's father, however in common cases, a religious official after consent from the Wali, will preside over the solemnisation. Here, under the grace of Allah, the groom vows to accept the bride's hand in front of witnesses.


Alhamdulillah, sekali lafaz saja sempurna Akad Nikah antara DetZ & Ijam. Laju eh cJam atu menjawap, pakai koma saja imam, nada fullstop tarus d sambung nya hahaha..

Majlis Berdikir & Berbedak commenced at about 8 pm, a bit late than scheduled.

The Malam Berbedak or Night of Powdering is a ceremonial event where family members and friends/family are invited to 'bless' the Bride/Groom by anointing the Bride/Groom with an ointment made from colored rice flour and scented oils. The Bride and Groom are dressed up in traditional Berbedak attire which is different for each one. The Bride has on a heavy brass (sometimes gold plated) headgear that has either a symbol/statuette of a chicken (called Ayam-ayam) or dragon (Naga) and is surrounded (wrapped) round with scented flowers. The groom has on a songkok (Muslim hat) or Dastar (crown made from songket cloth). Both are adorn with brass/gold plated arm bands, wrist bands, ankle bands and necklace. The Bride is also wrapped around her waist with a kain songket (usually red) that was given by the groom as part of her dowry (hantaran).

Not being an "orang brunei banar" (as we're orginating from tutong on both parents' side, DetZ are not expected to wear the traditional attire, so she didnt). Nevertheless, she looks stunning in her golden attire.

i'll put into more details on the occassions when the pics are ready. Just a little bit of info:

Costume & Accesories : MRSA Bridal (Nikah, Berdikir & Berbedak)
Nikah Costume : Own.
Photog : Ripin (Link available on right-hand side bar)
Make-up : Eira
Caterer : Marsha Rest (Nikah) Soto Rindu Rest (Berdikir & Berbedak)

and thanks a whole lot to families and friends for the sedakah - be it monetory or non.

Sunday lagi ah....


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its 1.36 am-and they are still layaning the karaoke..somehow the word "ngaleh" inda exist tu arah diary drg ah..... hahahahahah.

Majlis Pernikahan

Alhamdulillah, everything went well this morning. The makeup artist started 'making up' my face around 7.45am. Went to sleep at 2+am last night n Mami Alai thought I couldn't sleep pasal nervous. hahahaha NOT!!!!

Anyway, the groom arrived with the family earlier than scheduled. Patut nya around 10.30, but then they came b4 10, which was good coz awal smpai awal start majlis n awal abis, as sum were gagas for the sembahyang Jumaat.

N the groom did well msa bca akad nikah hehehe... Lancar yoooo. Tp mcm gagas jua bunyinya td hehe. Thanx to everyone yg dtg td pagi. And Alhamdulillah, the food was also enough for everyone, and they complimented the daging rendang. The caterer was Marsha Restaurant, owned by a colleague's mum.

Thanx to everyone yg datang, relatives especially my beloved cousins... Tonight will be berbedak n berdikir, expecting some friends to come over. Yay!!! Hmmmm... Jadi bini urang udah mcm nda pcaya lah rasanya. N not forgetting to Mami Alai, Bayai a.k.a Eira (Make-up artist) and RJ63 (official photographer), HUGE THANX guys... To Sharol n wife Hjh Aziha, thanx for the gubahan. To Nanang n Ejah... Hehehehehehehe

**Just now I received a call from my adik angkat Izi from KL. We were expecting her tonight and boboy n Ninak already left for Miri kn aga ia. Skali nya she MISSED her flight, and she was crying on the fon. Kesian bunyi nya. Kemarin nda ampit tiket direct to BWN. To Sis Izi n Ida, its ok, InsyaALLAH Im going to KL in Dec will meet u guys yea. Izi, stop crying ya dear. Take care.

betebiat photogs anie heheh. Unc Ali janji InsyaAllah esuk. c Isy buat inda tau.. cMai aku alum chase lagi..

i didnt take any decent pics bah fr malam masuk bedak mandi hari tu..

this is the best shot i had:



GOT MILK???

Majlis Buka Bedak Mandi

Thusday, 31st July 2008.
Ceremony starts at about 8pm with the attendance of the families. DeTZ getting made up done about 8.45pm.
Babah got the honor being first to 'menculiki', followed by Nini Girl, n then Mama. The uncles and aunts of both sides followed next.
Menculiki session ends about 30mins later, after which dinner is served.
The ceremony last night marks the start off of the wedding celebration between Alizam & Akmarini, with the highlight being Majlis Akad Nikah, to be held next Friday morning, 08.08.08. Following which, Majlis Berdikir & Berbedak to be held later in the evening. Majlis Bersanding will takes place on 10.08.08.

Pictures to post up soon.